I Love France: Why This American Expat Never Wants to Leave

It’s 7 a.m. in Strasbourg, and the boulangerie two doors down has just opened. The smell of warm butter drifts up to my window, mixing with the sound of church bells and the soft scrape of a café owner setting out chairs on the cobblestones.

I first moved to France in 2013, and this small, ordinary morning still stops me in my tracks. This is the France that never makes the postcards, and it’s exactly why I stayed.

If you’re dreaming of visiting France, planning a move, or just wondering why so many people fall hard for this country, this post is for you. 

I’m not writing as a tourist who spent a week in Paris. I moved here in 2013, lived three years in the capital, settled in Strasbourg in 2019, and became a French citizen in 2024. Along the way, I’ve helped plenty of travelers plan trips that go far beyond the guidebooks.

So here are the real reasons I love France, told through the moments that changed how I see this place.

Jen Ciesielski in the La Petite France neighborhood of Strasbourg. The beautiful architecture is one of the many reasons why I love France.
Me in La Petite France (Strasbourg)

11 Reasons to Love France

France pulls you in slowly. It’s not just the lavender fields or the Eiffel Tower at night. It’s the rhythm of daily life, the way people linger over lunch, and the little surprises that hide in every region. Here’s what you’ll discover when you look past the clichés.

1. A Work-Life Balance That Changed My Whole Perspective

Jen with her son and husbands celebrating her son's first birthday on the weekend because they don't have to work. They are standing around a cake with a candle.
Celebrating on the Weekend

The first Friday I worked in France, my manager gently told me to close my laptop and go home. It was 5 pm, and I remember feeling almost guilty.

Back in the US, I’d been trained to see long hours as proof of dedication.

Here, that idea barely exists.

Weekends are actually yours. Shops close, phones go quiet, and families gather around long lunches that stretch into the afternoon.

The standard work week runs about 35 to 37 hours, and most people take 25 to 30 vacation days a year, plus 11 paid holidays.

It took me a full year to unlearn my old habits. Now I can’t imagine going back.

2. History You Can Actually Touch

A rectangular table is in the center of a room surrounded by wooden chairs. On the walls there battle maps for World War 2. It was here that Germany surrendered and remains one of the significant historical sites in France.
Map Room at the Musée de la Reddition in Reims

I’ll never forget standing in the small map room in Reims where Germany signed its surrender in 1945. The maps are still on the walls. You can feel the weight of the moment in the quiet.

France wears its history everywhere. You’ll find Roman ruins in Lyon, medieval half-timbered houses in Alsace, and castles in cities most tourists skip. What I love is how casual it all feels. Locals sip coffee next to buildings older than my entire home country.

When you visit France, don’t rush past the small towns. Some of my favorite historical moments happened in places I’d never heard of before I moved here.

3. Healthcare That Works

Healthcare products Jen bought from a French pharmacy, including deodorant, medication, and bandaids. The affordable healthcare is one reason Jen loves this country.
What I Buy at a French Pharmacy

A few years ago, I caught a nasty flu and dragged myself to my family doctor, my médecin traitant. The visit cost me €7, and my prescription was free. I sat in the pharmacy afterward, stunned.

France’s healthcare system is funded through social security, and everyone contributes. A standard doctor’s visit runs €0 to €7, and with a referral, specialists cost about the same. The quality matches the affordability, which is rare.

For anyone thinking about living in France long term, this is a huge piece of the puzzle. It’s one of the first things I walk clients through when they ask what daily life here really costs.

4. Landscapes That Shift in a Single Day

Yellow and green vineyards line the Alsace Wine Route near Dambach la Ville in fall.
Vineyards near Dambach la Ville (Alsace) in Fall

One spring, I hiked to Hohlandsbourg Castle in the morning, and by evening I was eating dinner in Turckheim, a village that looks like a fairy tale. That kind of variety is normal here.

France packs an astonishing range of scenery into one country. You can wander Paris in summer, hike the Alps, and sunbathe on an Atlantic beach within the same trip. The distances are short, and the trains make it easy.

Here’s an insider tip: the Alsace wine route in autumn, when the vineyards turn gold, is one of the most beautiful drives you’ll ever take.

5. A Diversity That Surprises Most Visitors

When I first arrived, I worried I’d feel like the only foreigner. I couldn’t have been more wrong.

Cities like Strasbourg, Marseille, Lyon, and Paris are wonderfully mixed. Walk through any major city, and you’ll hear French, Arabic, German, English, and Spanish woven together.

Strasbourg, in particular, sitting right on the German border, blends two cultures in a way I’ve never seen anywhere else.

This melting pot is a big part of French culture that rarely makes the travel brochures. If you’re nervous about fitting in as an expat, take it from me: you’ll find your people faster than you think.

6. Architecture Worth Traveling For

Tables and booths line the Brasserie Excelsior in Nancy. The ceiling and windows are decorated in the Art Nouveau style, which is one of the most stunning examples in France.
Brasserie Excelsior in Nancy

I once took a train to Nancy to eat breakfast at Brasserie Excelsior. I love Art Nouveau architecture, and the detailed ceilings and colorful stained glass make it one of the most stunning brasseries in town. I wasn’t disappointed.

Yes, the Eiffel Tower and the Château de Versailles deserve their fame. But French architecture surprises you most in the small places: a crooked medieval lane, a Gothic cathedral glowing at sunset, an Art Deco façade tucked between apartment blocks.

Wandering with no plan is my favorite way to explore. Some of the prettiest corners of France don’t have a single tour bus in sight.

7. The Language That Let Me Belong

For a long time, I felt like a visitor in my own life here. Then, slowly, the French clicked. I remember the first time I cracked a joke in French and my colleagues laughed, really laughed, and something shifted. I wasn’t on the outside anymore.

French is often called one of the most romantic languages in the world, and it is beautiful. But more than that, learning it opened the door to the culture. A simple bonjour changes how people treat you. It signals respect, and it comes back to you tenfold.

If you take one piece of advice before visiting France, learn a few words. To date, learning French is the single best thing I ever did.

8. There’s a City for Every Kind of Person

Busy road in Lyon filled with cars and pedestrians. There is a type of city for everyone in France.
Busy Streets of Lyon

I’ve lived the fast Parisian life and the slower Strasbourg life, and I loved both for completely different reasons.

France has a home for every personality. Paris and Lyon buzz with restaurants, art, and late nights. Nice and the coastal towns offer sea air and sunshine. Smaller cities like Strasbourg give you culture without the crush of crowds.

There’s no single best place to live in France. When I work with clients considering a move, we spend real time matching the city to their lifestyle, because the right fit makes all the difference.

9. The People Who Proved Me Wrong

French People at a Fish Market on the Vieux Port in Marseille
French People in Marseille

I’ll be honest. When I arrived, I half-believed the stereotype that the French are cold or rude. Then my coworkers spent their lunch breaks patiently helping me learn French.

The French don’t hand out warmth to strangers the way Americans do. But once you’re in, they’re loyal for life. My closest friends here are French, and they’re the reason I stayed long enough to call this place home.

Don’t let the stereotypes fool you. A little effort and a friendly bonjour open more doors than you’d expect.

10. The Markets I Can’t Live Without

A selection of cheeses from the local market where Jen lives in France. It's one of the things I love about France.
Cheese at My Local French Market

Every Saturday, I walk to my local market with an empty basket and a loose plan.

One time, a cheesemonger insisted I try a slice of aged Comté before buying, then talked me through three others just for the joy of it. I left with far more than I intended, and no regrets.

French markets are a feast for the senses, piled with fresh produce, flowers, cheese, and handmade goods. They’re often cheaper than the grocery store, too. Most towns hold at least one a week, and bigger cities have several.

This is where you see real French lifestyle in action. If you visit, skip a museum morning and go to a market instead. You’ll thank me.

11. Food That Ruined Me for Everywhere Else

Aligot topped with a sausage and a side salad. The food is one of the best things about France.
Aligot for Lunch

The first time I tried tarte flambée in a tiny Alsatian village, thin, crisp, topped with cream, onions, and lardons, I actually went quiet. I’ve chased that feeling ever since.

French cuisine earns its reputation.

Fresh baguettes, buttery pastries, decadent desserts, and each region with its own specialty.

Lyon has its quenelles de brochet. Aubrac has aligot. Alsace has its tarte flambée and choucroute. And the quality is what stuns most visitors: produce picked locally, cheese aged with care, ingredients chosen as they matter.

Eating in France taught me to slow down. Meals here aren’t fuel. They’re the whole point of the day.

Final Thoughts

From market mornings to mountain hikes, there are countless reasons to love France.

If I had to pick just one, it would be the language, because the day French finally made sense to me was the day I understood France itself.

After more than a decade here, and now as a French citizen, this country still amazes me. It’s my home away from home, and I love sharing it.

If reading this has you dreaming of France, let’s make it real.

I offer personalized travel consultations to help you skip the tourist traps and experience the France I fell in love with, from hidden villages to the best boulangeries. Get in touch, and let’s start planning your adventure.


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Jen Ciesielski
Jen Ciesielski

Jen Ciesielski is the creator of Dabbling in Jet Lag. Originally from the United States, she moved abroad in 2012 and has since made France her permanent home. After spending three years in Paris, immersing herself in the culture, language, and history, she relocated to Strasbourg in 2019. Jen has traveled extensively across France, uncovering its hidden gems and unique locales. Her journey culminated in 2024 when she was granted French citizenship, solidifying her expertise and commitment to sharing the beauty and intricacies of living and traveling in France.

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